Who's Responsible?

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Let's welcome back our long lost blogger who happened to have disappeared after ".   ", well we do not know why. But with a resounding applause let's welcome her as she bows her head in shame.

   Long time no post for about two months or three.So I am back with a little something I call " Who's Responsible?" a confusing title for a not so confusing post.

     Responsibility comes in various definitions to different individuals in the society. To societies in Africa responsibility can be characterized broadly by roles, actions,and culture. Responsibility can be otherwise defined as a social force that binds you to courses of action demanded by that force. A key note is 'social force'.

Our roles in our society defines our level of responsibility. A number of times we try to embrace this given role most times they get exhausting we just want to live the "let go life". We all play vital roles in our life, Yes Our's, and that extends to our society. Sometimes we feel weighted being born into something we did not bargain for,something inevitable. Take for instance being born as a the first child of a whole pack,the moment you're born your midwife bestows you with a crown of responsibility( hellooo life).

    Most times we find it more pleasurable to lgnore,live the let go life and drown in the luxury. Responsibility is characterized by roles and discipline,sometimes we can't get away with poorly planned decisions and actions,because they do not just affect us,it becomes a weight on someone else's shoulder ( ok Sis what are you saying?) . Its a chain, it never ends, in a chronological sequence responsibility is transferred from a group of individuals to the next.

Discipline : A primary and essential tool in responsibility. Words can't begin to place how magical this word is. Life has so much to offer, so much it's mentally exhausting. So many standards that defines our world,how revolutionary,how evolving it is. Technology had developed the media, the media has expressed certain standards that could make us toss our discipline in a jar, lock it and throw it in the Lagoon.

How tragic, how tragically distracted this generation is(i inclusive). As much as life tries to spice its pie every year, decade or century. Discipline teaches you eating etiquette because life can be one sour dish.

It's so easy to feel motivated for a moment,a moment where you find a speaker or an author that elevates your spirit and is expressly relatable and you make decisions to evolve and take steps towards revolutionary change. Then you sleep and wake up the next day,bye bye motivation who took a three years trip to Cuba on a first class flight ( I am getting tired of my motivation first class flights, it's draining me financially😭).

I want to start reading according to my timetable and stop yelling "school is scam with this scholars". I want to achieve my goals,and all my talks is not getting me anywhere and discipline keeps slipping from my fingers like  goo. I am not perfect and entirely responsible but I am responsible for my actions and how it affects others. But that should not mean I should let go.

We all have things,people we are responsible for or to and sometimes we feel we should rather toss that weight but we should realize that weight would only be for a moment before it blooms into something fruitful.

Never give up.

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